It is difficult to forgive and let go, but you must remember that when you forgive, you are doing so for yourself and not for anyone else. Forgiveness permits you to let go of the past. How will you be able to focus on the future if you are still preoccupied with the past? To hold on to something in life, you must first let go of whatever is pulling you down. And here are three steps to help you forgive.
Forgive yourself.
The second step is to allow the holy spirit to give you the ability to forgive.
- Forgiveness is difficult, but remember, when you ask God to give you the utterance to forgive, you are giving yourself a chance to be forgiven by God himself. God will not forgive you if you are still holding a grudge.
The third step is to move on or proceed.
Just because you've forgiven them doesn't imply you should re-acquaint yourself with them.
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